Tuesday, December 18, 2007

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Why We Do not Like to Get Help?

Why have to be 4 million sperm to fertilize those fighting for a single egg? For the rest I'm embarrassed to ask ... for us men to seek help is to take a loss. Is to admit that we do not we can. Our life has always been a constant competition. Faced with a problem, we prefer the avoidance or seeking solace in alcohol or drugs instead of talking issues, such as women, they do and ask for help when they feel they need. In doing so, protect themselves from stress and keep up to date on any important issue.

is likely that this phenomenon is inherited from our ancestors. The women relied on others for protection, however the men were prepared to catch and react to danger. Of course, we can find a biological explanation to the matter. In situations of stress, the body of women increases levels of oxytocin , a hormone that among other functions, allows easy movement of sperm and muscle contraction in the channels players of both sexes, and a lock post orgasm stress, which leads to calm and ineractĂșen with others. Testosterone, that abounds in us, acting in a manner contrary to oxytocin, which may explain why men react so differently to danger.

But beyond biology and evolution, there is a strong sociological obstacle: the pride . Being strong, self-sufficient and not appear vulnerable, are behaviors that society at any given time to raise society's masculinity men. Therefore, we generated high expectations for ourselves, making it difficult to admit the problems. We see her vulnerability as an invitation to others to our closed from breaking territory.

language to express ourselves through our strength is not more visible. According to studies, over a period of stress the brain area of \u200b\u200ba woman who is associated with language is activated, while in the human brain to activate the area associated with logic and spatial location. Eg ., When we pass a tutorial or map, react with natural ability and visualize or build immediately in our minds the image of what we are explaining. Men and women have distinctly different skills, which is why the supplement makes ideas are realized and the problems are solved.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

Cute Friend Picnik Quotes

Money is not everything ... but how to help ...

This has been a bad year for many, but that's not the issue ...



Money is the center of much of the ills of people. Unfortunately because many regrets not having money. Beyond the issue of poverty, which incidentally is also the subject of importance to what I is it takes money to do many things to study, to have good health care, to buy some things, anyway.

Failure to bring money home, or not having enough money at home can cause problems attached to poverty. Generated problems of personal relationships between people, either because on one side thinks the other will not give me money, and the other thinks the other person asks a lot of money. Family problems, since it is difficult to deny money to a family member, as a mother or father, and when given this fact, the child becomes as victimizer. It also generates family use a certain way, under the concept of good will, because if a family member has that "economic deference" to someone who apparently needed, in some number of cases, it is thought that because the former can help , may well continue to do so later. That's definitely cool. It also generates mental health problems: not having money, and even more, when you had it before, produces a feeling of emptiness, low power, I think I can generate, anxiety disorders and existential crisis. So I see it.



The money obviously gives you a status social, and to progress in life, at all levels, either in studies with the family, socially, in relation to health, we need the money as a source of our desires and needs. When this resource is limited, when there are "silver stretch" or debt, will create problems in addition, that in the end are those who wear human relationships.
I have seen cases of people who borrow more than normal in order to have their stuff before. Or take out a loan to pay another. No way. Or lying to obtain more resources from a source with good will, using in some way the lack of persons in relation to some things.
As Los Autenticos Decadentes say, "Money is not everything, but how to help" ... On that we agree. But I think the power of money goes to keep family relationships, personal and social. Such is the power that generates the money that can generate more hatred and envy in bulk. Sometimes does not value the effort that many people have been proposed to achieve its own resources. It is hoped that this does not become a trend, a novelty, a "renewable resource" which explode.

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PS: A big hello to my town hold Tocopilla Tocopilla ... Sad that you can re-grow!