Infidelity. "Treason or tradition?
conversation at work with people, talk about infidelity. Many people live infidelity. On one side or the other. Or maybe the front, as a spectator "status?. Independent of the reasons why there is infidelity in a partner (because there are many reasons, and there always are), I have to wonder if it really hurts this event.
do I say this: just because a situation of infidelity, as in many other things, there are two paths: separated or forgive (and incidentally forgive yourself.) Of course the simple and radical solution is to end, end, separated, etc.. But curiously, it's surprising how many people who take the other route, that of forgiveness. Eye, is not enduring, is a process of rediscovery of love, a review period, to see what I did right or wrong. You can also season the way the arreprentimiento (true), betting that person again. So, is it possible to forgive infidelity? I've heard of people who, even when the person, that thorn are not allowed to be entirely happy. 
What temper must be those people who forgive an infidelity! I think that older people, although so obvious that the situation, all I want in life is to see and be with him, their spouses, their living comrades. It is logical that one or more delusions cause anger, disappointment, and other feelings, but we must also think that often the conditions for this event gives them the same person deceived. It is also a truth very certain that infidelity is the tip of the iceberg , ie there are situations where there is no longer around to give to the relationship and by a case of force majeure (mainly children) are " decide "to be together as family " by "well " of children. I put these words in quotes because none of them is true. No decision, the family is broken, and there is no good to the children. But that is slightly address the issue. 
infidelity First there is the option of " live life." Is this possible? "Will bring another nail a nail?. I do not know. On the other hand, for which the conditions of infidelity, there must be a dose of warmth and curiosity, and of course, someone who is looking for adventure and not commitment. Additionally adds the concept of novelty, to vary the style, and proximity, while at hand, the better. The plus also gives confidentiality, trying to keep secret this " relationship." ______________________________________________________________
Given this, what way forward? Does it hurt really infidelity, can allow you to forgive?
