Usually in life, when you favor, you have to give back. But what happens when you require even more than you give? I would like to show two cases that are 100% real:
Case A: His father died some years ago, and he became the breadwinner for her role older brother. Still living in his parents' house. Case B: Her father left home some years ago, opting for another life in another family. He is the younger of two brothers, and living in the parental home. After having gone to school and get a good job now, no longer lives at home or in the city. Where A and B converge on is that the mothers of each, housewives certainly require them to give them money so they can live. A and B, as workers make their contribution, not lower, at their respective homes, but their mothers ask for more. For A , the situation was causing quite overwhelmed as it worked well enough and took the reins of the house. Until one day explode and he "stopped the car " his mother, saying that if he needed more money she had to work, because it is a young women (say working age yet), it also has its costs, which is not allowed to make a substantial increase in its contribution to the house. In this case, her mother understood the situation, and is currently working. For B , his mother now lives alone at home, but every time B comes home to visit her mother criticized him saying that what sent him to study if it gets silver . In turn, B retorts that he is not ellapueda may say that, since he efectivamentele makes a monthly contribution, which is not less, for her to live. But she says he never " helped him, apparently in the sense that no more money has been spent yet. She refuses to work simply because they want, without having a history of hard years of work in tow. His older brother did not mostly because it can bring family, which will consume much of his salary. 
There is a moral commitment to family, in the sense of help when a bad pass, that is clear. But in these particular cases of A and B, I think the mothers, using the " property" to have sent to study at A and B, or simply because their mothers were still demanding more money than you already receive as "contribution" to maybe what kind of investment. Can be a dad, you @, a brother and sisters, etc. It is a situation between a rock and a hard place. It is difficult to deny one of these situations. At some point in life they were also "good " with you, and more than you ever "provided", and today we seek as a resource and does not expect you fail. So ... what to do? 
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